“Consistency requires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago.” – Bernard Berenson
In response to a statement regarding same-sex marriage issued by The First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (the Mormons), which is required to be read aloud, from the pulpit, to each Sunday congregation, church member Paul Malan scribed and open letter to his local Bishop.
https://medium.com/@ungewissen/missing-church-in-july-928e90931ee1
The letter rightly, via the Church’s own essays, condemns previous LDS racism:
When our culture began to recognize the nonsense of racism, N. Eldon Tanner assured Church members “that no matter how convincing an argument might seem to be,” our prophets and apostles were “powerless to change God’s unchanging laws when it comes to the color of our skin.”
Thankfully, God’s laws may be unchanging, but our understanding of them is not. The Church recently approved an essay in which they “unequivocally condemn all racism, past and present, in any form.”
Mr. Malan then goes on to draw the comparison between that needless, erroneous bigotry and the ongoing bigotry toward LGBT people:
There is nothing new or surprising in the wording of the letter you’ve been asked to read, but, as with past statements on race, it perpetuates misunderstanding and reinforces the “otherness” of our gay brothers and sisters. As a father, I hope our church can become a welcoming, safe place for my children to learn from Christ’s loving example within the context of their Mormon heritage. This letter makes that connection less likely.
As I am an atheist, I assume that Mr. Malan and I disagree on almost everything, though on this particular point we may find common ground; If a church celebrates that it receives modern-day revelation from its prophet, if that prophet speaks directly to The LORD, and if the church has received many, many, many documented revelations that have reversed previous practices*, how is it surprising or shocking to imagine that God may issue new commandments at any moment? Many LDS members believe that God will one day call them back to Independence, MO. Others believe that God will eventually call women to hold The Priesthood. Maybe God will even allow decency toward LGBT members.
As Dr. King said, “The arc of the Moral Universe is long, but it bends toward justice.” So too does the will of benevolent LDS believers like Mr. Malan, Kate Kelly, Douglas Wallace, and others like them who drag a stubborn, intolerant institution with them into a future of equality and morality.
But no one wants to go back to Missouri.
* Polygamy, Law of Consecration, Blacks in the Priesthood, Word of Wisdom, “White and Delightsome”, Law of Adoption
Sexuality is one aspect, but a bieggr one is simply that the church doesn’t provide meaning. It simply recites empty cliches couple with hefty judgmental and rather superficial attitudes. The earring nonsense being one of the most obvious manifestations of this. It creates a self-selecting environment for the self-righteous and a very oppressive environment for anyone not in lockstep. Why put up with that? Why go some place you’re not welcome and made to feel like dirt just by being yourself? Again, I’m not talking about people being “sexually immoral”, but those simply listening to the “wrong” music or wearing the “wrong” clothes or asking the “wrong” questions in church.I don’t know how anyone puts up with it.One other point my youngest brother makes: where we grew up in the 70s and early 80s, church was the only place young people could socialize. Today, every community has extensive youth programs for all types of kids, not just the jocks.